Childhood

.. funny time ,it means different things for different people .For the Most majority, its either a good memory, a period of no care,doing something and being jubilant .Those days are like days of  warm sunshine , lazy ,comfortable ,giggles for nothing and running around in Mud & Grass.

The days were just days- either it was jubilant ,warm  one or not .Even the one's with the baddest of childhoods have their days of being jubilant ,where times were as if ...one was feeling the whole Universe at the moment .there is no denying it ! The expression would start with WAAAAAA....... in most cultures of the world , before all could learn proper English and it would ,should become WOWWWWW......Unlike the times we kids grew-up , days are just days to be gone through doing things because.. they have to be done &  being excited takes a whole new turn . It takes the wild turn of being excited means .. having a Necklace ,a silly Car (when brought for status) ,a title (for status quo) which which will win them other peoples glares and Jealousy  .Wow............what a dramatic change .(Sorry i'm brainwashed with proper etiquette or my childhood expression would be WAAAAAA....).   The day , when being jubilant for ones own sake was lost.. is not known (except for when we are eating a chocolate or a cream laden Pastry with cherry toppings or hearing the roar of great Bike).

My calculation is that the feeling of  warmth is the one which makes the good old days .  Probably when even one was poor as a church mice , didn';have all the toys they wanted to play with,got less marks ,got beaten up by teachers for home works ,being late and all other ways very bad things one could imagine ......(at that time) it still is a comfortable good time being hugged by mother ,loved ones & being lovingly talked into doing things like home work ,eating dinner by parents ,teachers ,loved ones .That is the ultimate deduction of this story ....being loved and loving someone without a care ! be it your pet or your grand Parents . Grand parents always seem be grander than anybody ,be it their behavior or their Antics . Laughing about them behind their backs ,with others ..they still do make it into the great memories In fact they are the ones which slow down the pace of our quick life's with their slow movement in things ..physically too.

lot has been said about childhood ,mangoes ,running for kites ,childhood crushes & my Ultimate deduction is the "warmth" which comes from being loved and loving without a care that does make things Golden days .As an Adult , love goes for a toss..too much interference by too intelligence ( too many people telling us too many things abt how to smile ,how to be ,what to do ,how to live ) , too many things to do.,where you really don't know what you are doing and what you are feeling ..think abt it (dumb guys its info bombarding you too well .. and the mind working like a machine imported from hell non stop ,not even Chinese one which breaks down and does slows down) The modern life style is the one which brings in the highest number of cancer patients..the Good doctors tell us always and we are hell bent on winning the rat race without knowing where we are going .Our predecessors were better Men and Lady's  than this generation .  .

Your DaD and MoM or at least somebody you adore had enough time to be angry on you ,look at you ,take care of you scold you ,tend you, rub the hair on your forehead .You don't have it (the TV takes away abt 2 hours a day of the most majority,calculating to 730 hours a year) .The so called low liver's in towns and rural folk are the ones who have time . Probably their kids are the ones who are gonna have those memories, know what is love,what is- to be cared ,what is being.. around & they will forward those qualities , not kids of majority our city folk who have a lack and shortage of these things because we are too busy earning for a proper life with every modern product ." As you know those who don't have , cannot give "those with shortages will be lacking and don't accuse them of being shallow.You can be sure ,their kids will be shallower .God-damn the Urban Bane ....  Could we have those warm ,comfortable, lively days again unlike  inmates who feel bliss at meeting their loved ones and go back to the grind again . Is there God ..who allowed us to feel the amazement Once....